I don't think the analogy fits at all, but I agree with the sentiment. You should, however, understand the game to a certain extent, yes?
Totally agree. After 15 years of managing, coaching, and umpiring, I think there are a couple of simplistic fundamentals for new fastpitch coaches (regardless of gender) to absorb:
(1) it's not baseball - yes it's throwing, fielding, and catching...but JMHO - I know there are always exceptions - I think coaches do a disservice to the girls teaching an uppercut baseball swing and expecting it to work exactly the same with fastpitch softball...and the rules of the game are not the same in many important areas
(2) it's different coaching girls (took me 2 years to figure this one out...)