ArkFastpitch
Dont' I know you?
- Sep 20, 2013
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I had players and parents sign a "Code of Conduct" contract at the beginning of each season. Some it worked for some it did not. I guess its all in how you enforce it.
I would say coming over to the dug out to do anything more than give water or something like that as being overboard. That's me.
Believe it or not, during the high school season, I can't think of a single moment when I yelled an instruction to my daughter during her varsity or JV games. Maybe that's because I'm a coach who hates it when parents coach from the stands. Parents, like me, might have differences with some coaches, but the very best time to leave those issues in the closet is during a game.
I've even found myself during a game explaining to one parent or another why the coach may have chosen to have his/her daughter bunt as opposed to swing away.
I would say coming over to the dug out to do anything more than give water or something like that as being overboard. That's me.
Believe it or not, during the high school season, I can't think of a single moment when I yelled an instruction to my daughter during her varsity or JV games. Maybe that's because I'm a coach who hates it when parents coach from the stands. Parents, like me, might have differences with some coaches, but the very best time to leave those issues in the closet is during a game.
I've even found myself during a game explaining to one parent or another why the coach may have chosen to have his/her daughter bunt as opposed to swing away.
I know a TB coach who will usually sit on a hill overlooking the field, so as not to interfere with the game. He can't sit in the stands and remain quiet, and he can't figure out how I can keep quiet during the games.
S far as bunting vs. swinging away, I don't always agree with the coaches, but I realize the coaches know more about the situation than I.
I remember a 10U tournament once where the coach kept having DD bunt, over and over again, in situations I thought were a bit nuts (such as bunting to get on base with 2 outs). I bit my tongue around the coach, esp. since DD kept getting on base. Finally, a more knowledgeable parent explained to me that bunting in 10U can be a great strategy, esp. if the batter is fast and can bunt well. The irony is, the one time DD was in a situation whee everyone expected her to bunt, the coach had her swing away. That led to a game-winning 2 RBI double, with the infielders positioned to field a bunt.
In HS we enforce a rule that behind the backstop is only for scorekeepers and other officials.