- Jun 9, 2014
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DD has been working on her pitching over the course of a year and plays on a TB that has a few pitchers that are pretty darn good. She would be the #3. We sign her up in the Rec league to get circle time and she is a dominating pitcher in Rec. Her first two games conflict with her MS schedule so Rec coach finds a replacement and winds up getting a stud. Stud plays TB and only plays about half of the Rec games (pitching a couple, but primarily played SS) and never came to a practice. DD is the primary P and they go undefeated.
Rec playoffs come around and coach pitches stud in first game and says she's saving DD for the championship game. Stud wins her game. Next day, DD is expecting to pitch but stud gets the nod and the team gets the win. DD seems unaffected, and is happy they won. I'm personally not unhappy as DD loves to play SS too. Wife, however, is claiming DD is discouraged and is wondering why DD didn't get to pitch, claiming that is why she signed up for Rec, she made all practices, proved herself with results, blah blah blah (all valid points, I think). She convinces me to ask the coach what happened, and I obliged.
I hated every moment of it, but at the same time, felt I was defending my DD's honor somehow. I'm wondering how others would react or feel about me, as a parent, asking a coach about their game-time decisions with respect to what boils down to playing time. BTW, the conversation was very civil and simply addressed my curiosity as to why coach decided to not pitch DD. If you were to ask me who was actually the better player IMO, I would say in all honesty they were pretty much equal in ability although both were very different in style (DD harder thrower, stud more consistent) and either would dominate the games.
Rec playoffs come around and coach pitches stud in first game and says she's saving DD for the championship game. Stud wins her game. Next day, DD is expecting to pitch but stud gets the nod and the team gets the win. DD seems unaffected, and is happy they won. I'm personally not unhappy as DD loves to play SS too. Wife, however, is claiming DD is discouraged and is wondering why DD didn't get to pitch, claiming that is why she signed up for Rec, she made all practices, proved herself with results, blah blah blah (all valid points, I think). She convinces me to ask the coach what happened, and I obliged.
I hated every moment of it, but at the same time, felt I was defending my DD's honor somehow. I'm wondering how others would react or feel about me, as a parent, asking a coach about their game-time decisions with respect to what boils down to playing time. BTW, the conversation was very civil and simply addressed my curiosity as to why coach decided to not pitch DD. If you were to ask me who was actually the better player IMO, I would say in all honesty they were pretty much equal in ability although both were very different in style (DD harder thrower, stud more consistent) and either would dominate the games.