I'm having a hard time with a decision regarding what to do with my daughter next year. She's 10 and has been playing in our local recreational league for 4 years. Every year she was selected to the all star team, even when she was one of the youngest players on the team. So, clearly she has some talent. She's one of the best hitters in the league and has a decent arm. She's one of the few kids that can catch behind the plate and throw out runners. Last year she played as a 3rd grader in the 3rd, 4th, and 5th grade rec team. They had no pitching so she stepped up and pitched - albeit underhand - but was able to get the ball over the plate with decent speed and accuracy. She was again selected as an all star for the league.
Along comes try out for the town 10U team this year and low and behold, she is the only girl who was not selected for the team out of 13 girls. I attended the try out and while she wasn't the standout player, she was clearly not the worst. In fact, she told me afterwards that she didn't want to throw hard to the girl she was throwing with because the girl couldn't catch the ball. Some of the girls at tryout dropped EVERY popup and couldn't reach first base on a throw from SS. When I got the call that she didn't make the team you could have knocked me over with a feather.
So, she tells me last November that she wants to try pitching windmill. I played club ball 25 years ago and one of the team's pitchers is now a SB coach at a private school and gives pitching lessons. So I take her to see my friend to determine whether this is worth any of our time. Within 4 months, she is pitching beautifully with decent speed and accuracy. She looks effortless.
Now, the dilemma. She is playing rec this year again with girls way below her level and I am assisting coach to make sure all of the girls on the team get decent coaching on the fundamentals, which I have always seen as lacking with the daddy coaches who never played the sport and never went over the basics. I didn't want to put her on a club team yet because i feel she needs pitching experience with the windmill facing live batters without the pressure of a club team at this point. Assuming she does well, should I have her play for the town team in the fall when all girls who sign up play (no tryouts due to many of the spring travel players doing a different fall sport) or have her tryout only for club? In a way, I'd love for her to play for the town team so they could see what they were missing out on this year and kick themselves in the butt for cutting her (I realize this is very selfish and childish). This would also prove to her peers that she is as good or better than they are.
Sorry for the long rant and thanks for indulging me. I've read such great advice on this forum and I thought I'd get this off my chest and let you all tell me how nuts I am. The politics of softball will only get worse as she gets older i assume. Just want to do what's best. Thanks for your time and advice.
Along comes try out for the town 10U team this year and low and behold, she is the only girl who was not selected for the team out of 13 girls. I attended the try out and while she wasn't the standout player, she was clearly not the worst. In fact, she told me afterwards that she didn't want to throw hard to the girl she was throwing with because the girl couldn't catch the ball. Some of the girls at tryout dropped EVERY popup and couldn't reach first base on a throw from SS. When I got the call that she didn't make the team you could have knocked me over with a feather.
So, she tells me last November that she wants to try pitching windmill. I played club ball 25 years ago and one of the team's pitchers is now a SB coach at a private school and gives pitching lessons. So I take her to see my friend to determine whether this is worth any of our time. Within 4 months, she is pitching beautifully with decent speed and accuracy. She looks effortless.
Now, the dilemma. She is playing rec this year again with girls way below her level and I am assisting coach to make sure all of the girls on the team get decent coaching on the fundamentals, which I have always seen as lacking with the daddy coaches who never played the sport and never went over the basics. I didn't want to put her on a club team yet because i feel she needs pitching experience with the windmill facing live batters without the pressure of a club team at this point. Assuming she does well, should I have her play for the town team in the fall when all girls who sign up play (no tryouts due to many of the spring travel players doing a different fall sport) or have her tryout only for club? In a way, I'd love for her to play for the town team so they could see what they were missing out on this year and kick themselves in the butt for cutting her (I realize this is very selfish and childish). This would also prove to her peers that she is as good or better than they are.
Sorry for the long rant and thanks for indulging me. I've read such great advice on this forum and I thought I'd get this off my chest and let you all tell me how nuts I am. The politics of softball will only get worse as she gets older i assume. Just want to do what's best. Thanks for your time and advice.