Yesterday we were at a tournament where we went 0-3 never has happen before. We have in the past gone 2-1. The team was clearly not in the game, tons of errors, stupid things dropping balls after making good catches and just not catching balls to make the plays all rec ball mistakes. We didn't win our way in to nationals, we hosted a tournament so we get to go. Most of the parents are already planning that we would get blown out after the bracket play and be heading home early. Very poor motivation going with the intention of losing. My daughter who plays well and always has her head in the game and is focused really doesn't want to go. We have one player who's family "accidentally" schedules vacation so she will not be there her dad is also a coach and 2 others are currently injured one a vital part of the team and don't know if she will even be able to play. We would be going with 9, the majority think it is just a slumber party. My dd really thinks it is a waste of time but we will not let her quit. I wish these parents would get a reality check. What to do?